STOP Telling Youth Players to Pass!!!

STOP Telling Youth Players to Pass!!!

If I had a nickel for every time I heard a parent yell PASS during a youth soccer game in America; my bank account would rival that of Warren Buffett's; the billionaire investment tycoon.

Does this scenario sound familiar? Your child has the ball in his/her defensive third and three defenders are approaching quickly. You see a teammate wide open so you scream PASS at the top of your lungs. In response, (if you are lucky) your child passes the ball. No harm no foul right? Wrong!

Yelling pass, during a game, may make parents feel good, but is not developmentally helpful for the player and more importantly, it adds additional stress to a player who is supposed to be having fun. In this blog post, I will offer a better approach.

Offensive Decision Framework

  • "Open Space" is the most valuable real estate in soccer.
  • Therefore, the objective of attacking players is to move the ball (and bodies) into open space. 
  • Youth players who understand the importance of finding open space react faster, make better passes and dribble with more intentionality.
  • When the ball is in the middle, open space is normally found wide. When the ball is wide, open space is normally found in the middle. That is why soccer players typically pass in a zig-zag (or triangle) pattern. 
  • Scoring is the reward for advancing the ball and bodies into open space.

As a soccer dad, I am just as guilty of yelling pass as most parents. My revelation came during a conversation with my son.  While talking about what he should do if he received the ball on the wing, it dawned on me that he had no clue what the wing position was; let alone what to do with the ball. 

I literally slapped my forehead realizing how foolish I had been. Yelling pass to a wide player who doesn't know the role of a winger is just as counterproductive as yelling pass to an American football player who hasn't been told that he is the quarterback. The same logic applies in soccer, but it is not always obvious because the positions are more fluid.

A Simple Framework for Getting the Ball Into Open Space - To avoid overwhelming my son, I taught him a few very simple rules that are the foundation for all his offensive decisions.

Rule #1: Know Your Job: The primary job of an offensive player is to get the ball or their bodies into open space.

Rule #2: Zig Zag: When you receive the ball in the middle, 95% of the time the open space will be wide. When you receive the ball wide, 95% of the time the open space will be in the middle.

Rule #3: When in Doubt Play it Back: If there is no open space wide or in the middle, then there is definitely open space behind.

Rule #4: Make Them Pay: If the defense does not close you down, then you "take your chances". 

Excluding the goalie, there are only two ways for players to move the ball; dribbling and passing. With these rules, my son now understands WHY he passes and WHY he dribbles.  He dribbles and passes in order to find open space (Period). With this understanding, his offensive decision making has improved drastically.

Developmental Transformation - Now, he consistently crosses the ball into the box. Only a few months ago, he would try to dribble past several defenders.  I didn't teach the skill of crossing specifically. Instead, he is relying on the logic of the rules. He knows that if he has the ball wide his job is to get it into the middle where the open space is and vice versa.

Parents also marvel at his ability to make one-two passes with teammates at such a young age.  This didn't happen overnight, but now it's simple to him. He received the ball, in the middle and according to Rule #2, his first instinct is to get the ball back wide.

Taking Your Chances - This is where the player's creativity lies. There are an infinite amount of choices that a player has to make when they have time and space on the ball. That is totally up to the situation and the player.  As a parent, our job is to sit back and enjoy the action unfolding; regardless of the outcome.

Moving Without the Ball - This framework also gives the player a reason to move.  They should deliberately be trying to get into open space; not moving just to be moving. And they should certainly not be standing still beside a defender which is so often the case at the youth level.

Mistakes Will Happen - Relax! It's fine. Once they understand their role; the rest relies on their ability to execute which will come with practice.

What about Creativity and Decision Making - This framework served as offensive decision-making training wheels for my son.  A great analogy is in cycling; when teaching a child to ride, you wouldn't start by pushing them downhill on a 10-speed bike. However, soon they will grow out of the training wheels and start doing stunts on their own.

See this example video from my son's U9 game. He is playing midfield. Notice how he instinctively understands to get the ball into wide positions.

Hope this was helpful.

Previous post Next Post


  • Coach D - January 23, 2018

    Great read!
    From a coaches point of view demanding player to pass the ball falls under that desire to win.From the side line we see the pass that will progress the team closer to making a goal. When coaches/parents should be allowing players to perfect there ball control. This falls under development vs the win.

Leave a comment